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1 # 品生活1
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2 # 正念太極
原因可能如下:
1.刷存在感,引起他人的關注,證明自己還活著
2.刷認同感,期望他人的認可,證明自己也可以
3.刷歸屬感,尋找他人的自己,證明自己不孤獨
4.刷優越感,渴望他人的尊重,證明自己夠優秀
5.刷幸福感,激發他人的羨慕,證明自己無痛苦
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3 # 漢默森Studio
1,刷存在感。透過分享自己的生活、去的地方、吃的東西等吸引眼球。其內在需求是表明自己的存在。在這個人與人的關係越來越疏遠的時代,登門造訪、打電話,都可能犯冒失之嫌。透過微信刷存在感,讓朋友圈中所謂的朋友記得還有自己這個人存在,真的是個好辦法。
To obtain the feeling of existence. We can impress others by sharing our routine life, the place where we go, the food we eat, the goods we buy. The key point is to demonstrate our existence by appealing to the eyeballs. We are now in the era when the relations between human beings are becoming more and more unfamiliar and indifferent so that it is regarded disturbing and offensive to call at the house of old friends or even to telephone them. It is not so easy to find a good way to make us hear from each other without disturbing our private life nowadays. Wechat Moments provides us a platform where we can publish our information to the circles of friends. The friends in the circle can choose to read, respond or even ignore our message. Those who send the message would not care whether the receivers read it when emptying the bowels or before falling into to sleep in the midnight, and they would not care the receivers like it or not either. They only know maybe somebody will read it, and maybe somebody will click LIKE button, or somebody will give comments, and that’s OK.
2, 發洩自己的傾訴欲、表現欲、暴露欲。
To meet requirements of pouring out one’s heart, to satisfy the desire to show off, to fulfill the wish of exposure.
Human is the kind of creature who has intense social nature. They have various interactive requirements. The need of revealing one’s innermost feelings is a very important aspect. Those who have strong feeling of speaking out can even release themselves by shouting at cattle, just like some indoors-men abandon themselves to do hand job in front of the picture of Bingbing Fan.
So is the desire to show off for some persons. They might feel very excited since their childhood if they could act something to the audience. Maybe their dream job is to become actors or actresses. They will feel extraordinarily disappointed if they find there are no crowd surrounding them when they are showing something. Unfortunately in their everyday’s life, they are not focus people and don’t have this opportunity of showing off. Luckily, Wechat help them a lot by providing this platform for showing off.
Generally speaking, people tend to protect their privacy and don’t like to reveal their true features. But situation is not always like this. Some people are fond of exposing their private life, their mind, and some parts of their bodies. Similarly, Wechat Moments provides a place for exposing themselves.
3, 記錄自己的生活、思想。一方面是為了留待自己以後來看,去追尋。
To keep records of their life and idea. On one hand, they can keep the picture and writing so that they can study and recall them in the future; on the other hand, the behavior itself of writing down their idea can help them organize their thought and then work out more reasonable and comprehensive point of view. In this aspect, they use Wechat as diary software.
But why not use professional diary software directly? Maybe one reason is that the diary software is not so famous and so easy to obtain as Wechat. I think the more important reason is that through Wechat they can share their point of view to others and elicit feedback which may help them modify their idea. However, they will be disappointed eventually and find others seldom give extraordinarily useful feedback as they expected. Why? It is easy to perceive that the others wouldn"t have the same interest as them in their personal issues.
4, 兜售自己的觀念,給人洗腦。企業老闆、職業經理人、培訓師、公眾人物、老師等經常這麼做。
To promote one’s own idea, and try to brainwash others. Company owners, professional managers, trainers, teachers, other public figures, like to do this way. These guys think they are smarter than others, but brainwashing is harder than money laundering.
To sell one’s own products. Various kinds of salesperson, promoters, tend to regard Friend Circles of Wechat as shopping place of their own company and peddle all the time. Some professionals like to peddle their specialized knowledge here, and so on. These behaviors are very annoying.
To sell themselves, and to demonstrate their special image, of course with intention. For example, somebody always transmit message purposed to contain so called positive energy or chicken soup for the soul in Moments, in order to let others think they positive and optimistic persons. Actually only God knows what they are doing every day. Many officials, actors/actresses and other famous people act like this.
7, 透過發朋友圈自我激勵,自我暗示。甚至詛咒發誓,反正重複萬遍也成為真理,達到自欺欺人的效果。比如經常發些要堅持、要有毅力的帖子,成功學的帖子,比爾·蓋茨10條忠告什麼的。表面上是給人家看的,實際上是為了激勵自己。剛學“成功學”的年輕人最喜歡這麼做。
To self-motivate and self-suggest. They transmit some message which they think will be their life creed, or guide to action, or key to success. They quote traditional saying, motto of celebrities, such as 10 suggestions from Bill Gates and Ma Yun, repeatedly every day only to regulate and cultivate themselves. The young people who just start to be mind-controlled by so-called success science act like this.
8, 別有用心的特別目的,如醜化某些國家,醜化政黨,醜化某些民族,挑起地域紛爭,挑起社會動盪,挑起民眾對政府的不相信等。
With special political or social purpose. For example, some persons spread materials to demonize some country, to smear some parties, to defame some nationalities, or to provoke territory conflict, to stir up social instability, to cause the public to have no confidence in their government, etc.
9, 用來做追求某人、示愛的手段。
To chase girls, to show love to them.
10,某些特別工作需要或事務性目的。
To publish some personal or business notification on this convenient cost-free platform. For example, we can issue a meeting notice in a corporate inner group of Wechat. And we can publish a notice for missing person there.
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4 # 安利小公主
其實,我們髮狀態傳照片,
不是為了告訴誰,
我吃什麼了,做什麼了,和誰在一起,
更不是要得瑟給誰看。
而是有一天自己真的老了,
搬著凳子無事可做曬太陽的時候,
能拿出自己的流水式日記看一看,
回憶一下那年那月,
和朋友在一起的點點滴滴,
自己年輕時的容顏……
證明這個世界我來過,而且活的真實而精彩。
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5 # 坐井觀一天
存在感,
虛榮心,
想要被關注是人的人性,
想要被贊是人性,
想要分享是人性,
想要吐槽也是人性。
比如我,喜歡回答問題,沒事找事,好為人師,也是人性。
你為什麼問這個問題?
思考、尋找答案、追求真理也是人性。
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6 # 我有一秘密
第一。就是純粹的刷存在感。
第二。是為了給特別的人看。
第四。是喜歡記錄自己生活認為很有必要分享的每一刻。同時也是為了讓自己以後有著曾經美好的回憶。
還有一種是,認為自己做的美食或者讀的一本書,成功拿下的專案。旅遊拍下的美景。想要借這個朋友圈無限的空間記住自己走過的有意義的時光。尤其是這些照片存在朋友圈,可以不佔任何記憶體,又很方便尋找。同時自己每次翻起的時候還能立刻回憶起那一刻的感觸。目前想到的就這些吧。會發朋友圈的人比不發朋友圈的人會更關注和刷朋友圈的頻率要高。也就意味著他比較在乎自己的朋友圈,就好像在經營自己的生活一樣。
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7 # 煙火姑娘
還有一種事居然是對自己的肯定,有很多人晚上凌晨之後發朋友圈,有時候只是簡單的發一首歌,一個表情,或者表示自己非常的累,其實在朋友圈背後的他們,是在認認真真加班工作的,他不願和別人抱怨,只是想自己加油打氣,成年人的世界從來都沒有容易,只有在痛苦中尋找一點小幸福。
回覆列表
第一個原因
第二個原因
分享一下自己的感悟,希望得到一些人的認可和關注,不管結果是否如願吧,就是自己當時的心態!
第三個原因
自己確實比之前生活的好了,就是希望讓更多的人知道自己強大了,就是顯擺自己,拍拍自己的車和自己的大房子。
第四個原因
就是記錄自己的生活,古人用筆記錄,而現在的人喜歡短影片記錄,也無可厚非,就是單純的一樣未來的莫個時候能看看曾經的自己吧!