審美是一個認識自然，確定其該事物或人物其存在價值的意向。人的審美標準是千差萬別的，你認為好看的東西，別人不一定認可；別人覺得很美的東西，你認為很一般或是奇醜無比。這樣，你也會懷疑自己的審美標準，究竟錯在哪裡，有很多的人在這稜模兩可中宣告審美失敗。

當我讀了書史開了眼界，懷疑自己的鑑賞能力有低。有待提高自己的鑑賞力。

人學書法，看的多，接觸的多，有了視野，開了眼界，知其書法存在各種各樣的美，有著不同的姿態存在，比如碑學的陽剛雄奇，典雅古樸。帖學的流暢俊美。

知其楷書的嚴謹，草書的飛馳，篆書的圓轉，隸書的方圓，不去領悟古典各種書帖。就不會知曉書法筆畫的出處。如何鑑賞，只有孤陋寡聞。

因此現在鑑賞能力參差不齊。比如對待草書境，好多學書者不知道草書美，就因為草書極為難以識別識讀。因此有人認為潦草書體，不會寫字的人才有了寫草書遮醜。

對於篆書也是難以識讀，也就無法欣賞，

我初學，對於各種書體，欣賞習慣楷書與行書。隨著年齡增長，接觸書法的廣度提高，慢慢積累了書學的欣賞性。雖然知其然，起碼知道何種書法是美的，何種書法是醜的。同時也能感覺出書法形質的妙美。

回顧往日，只能欣賞行書，對於草書不知一二。

故大家都有體驗，何時才有欣賞能力，只有伴隨著自己的書法水平的提高。才有一定的鑑賞力。

什麼是審美？審美是人類理解世界的一種特殊形式，指人與世界（社會和自然）形成一種無功利的、形象的和情感的關係狀態。審美是在理智與情感、主觀與客觀上認識、理解、感知和評判世界上的存在

What is aesthetics? Aesthetics is a special form of human understanding of the world, which refers to the relationship between human and the world (society and nature) in a state of non utility, image and emotion. Aesthetics is to know, understand, perceive and judge the existence of the world in terms of reason and emotion, subjective and objective

人的審美是會隨著年齡，環境，時間的變化而變化，很多人隨著年齡的增長，會覺得以前不美的東西，現在覺得很美，以前覺得很美的東西，現在又覺得也不過如此嘛

People"s aesthetics will change with the age, environment and time. Many people will feel the things that were not beautiful before as they grow older. Now they feel that they are very beautiful. The things that were beautiful before are just so now

現在很多人的審美都是病態的，就像別人喜歡你的漂亮，那麼他也一定會喜歡上比你更漂亮的，別人喜歡你的財富，那麼他也會喜歡上比你更富有的人，別人喜歡你的好，也會喜歡上比你對他更好的人。唯有人性是不變的，當一個人喜歡你的性情和心靈，那麼這個人一定是死心塌地的。生活總歸要回歸平淡和無趣，只有真正的愛能守得住這種考驗

Now many people"s aesthetic is morbid, just like others like your beauty, then they will certainly like the more beautiful than you, others like your wealth, then they will also like the richer than you, others like your good, and they will like the better than you. Only human nature is unchangeable. When a person likes your temperament and mind, he must be determined. Life must return to its plainness and dullness. Only true love can stand the test

那麼你是什麼時候開始懷疑自己的審美呢？

人大部分審美開始變化是經歷過一些事情以後，大概在30歲左右, 審美變化幾乎是必然的，因為人隨著年齡的增長，經歷豐富了太多，也逐漸的對過往的一些喜好感到厭倦和不屑，更主要的是價值觀和世界觀會有變化，審美的角度無論是外表和內心都會調整

Most people"s aesthetic changes are almost inevitable when they are about 30 years old after they have experienced some things. Because with the growth of age, people have experienced too much, and they are gradually tired of and disdain for the past preferences. More importantly, the values and world outlook will change, and the aesthetic perspective will be adjusted both in appearance and in heart

就拿我來舉幾個例子：

比如：還記得小時候看三國，對尊劉貶曹的思路並沒有什麼認識，因此印象最深刻的是諸葛亮的智慧，劉關張的義氣，等等。最近重看三國，到喜歡曹操了，喜歡他的用人，才能，管理等等，因為他的成功教會了我很多社會上用到的東西

For example, when I was a child, I didn"t know much about the way of respecting Liu and demoting Cao when I saw the Three Kingdoms. So what impressed me most was Zhuge Liang"s wisdom, Liu Guanzhang"s righteousness, etc. Recently, I have paid more attention to the Three Kingdoms. I like Cao Cao. I like his employment, talent, management, etc. because his success has taught me a lot of things used in society

以前上初中高中的時候，那時候經常在宿舍牆壁上貼一些港臺明星的畫報，當時我都貼了陳慧琳，朱茵，以前看電影的時候覺得朱茵是真的美，尤其是大話西遊裡的她，我家裡也貼的有，那時候是多麼的崇拜和喜歡，可是到了現在，想起來那時候的我，想起來那時候的照片，自己也會暗暗發笑，現在看來很一

When I was in junior high school and high school, I often pasted some Hong Kong and Taiwan star pictorial on the dormitory wall at that time. At that time, I pasted Chen Huilin and Zhu Yin. I thought Zhu Yin was really beautiful when I was watching movies, especially when I was talking about her in the journey to the West. My family also pasted it, how I adored and liked it at that time. But now, when I think of that time, I think of that time Waiting for the photos, I will also secretly laugh, now it seems very common.

除此之外，還有很多少年我不喜歡，甚至討厭的形象，到了現在卻意義的喜歡，也有以前很多我認為很漂亮的形象，到了現在卻不認為的例子

In addition, there are many images that I don"t like or even hate, but I like them meaningfully now. There are also many images that I thought were beautiful before, but I don"t think of them now

年少的時候的我和已過而立之間的我對同一個人的外在感受是大不一樣的，審美觀念真實會隨著年齡增長而變化的

When I was young, my external feelings for the same person were quite different from those of me who had already passed. The true aesthetic concept would change with the age

由此可見，認得審美會隨著時間的推移，年齡，閱歷而變化，說到這裡你是否會在自己安靜的時候回憶起當初自己看好的人或者物，細品過後，現在是否還和之前一樣呢？

從我找了一個做設計師的老公開始他每天的工作就是數落我穿衣服不好看，頭型不好看，鞋子不好看，身材不好看，化妝不好看………………曾經一度我對自己的審美產生了極度的懷疑！但是如今我們結婚八年啦，當他說我審美有問題的時候，我豪橫的回懟過去：我嚴重懷疑你的審美，我這麼不完美你怎麼就娶回家了呢！我說的對嗎？？？？？？？