Emotion and communicationA person living in the world, in addition to the basic necessities of life indispensable material needs, there are more important emotional needs. This kind of emotional needs only between people and people in social interaction, communication can be satisfied.In recent years, his wife returned to Beijing Shanghai disease, sometimes cure, living in her domestic disease. I was alone in the Xinjiang work, life, home water, electricity and gas facilities, clothing and living to worry about, basically living security. However, I always feel empty, the lack of what. In fact, in the final analysis is the lack of emotional life.Past and his wife and daughter together life did not perceive it. Now I understand, if there is no emotional life, a life is like the Gobi desert grass, in the rubble of a fish, difficult for normal happiness to live. Therefore, it can be said that emotion is life. Only material life and emotional life are rich and colorful life, is a real, meaningful and valuable life.Life can not be separated from the emotional, emotional and can not be separated from the communication. The emotional needs of people can only be obtained through the interaction and communication between people. In that lonely, lonely days, I do not like holidays, would rather go to work every day. Because when you go to work with the office of colleagues, friends work together, take the time to talk about the heart, chat, emotional needs to meet, enrich the meaning of life.Holidays alone at home, even a person who does not speak, and do not love to go out to play, had to close in the house reading, writing, which is also considered a spiritual sustenance bar. Sometimes, his wife or daughter phoned, I am very happy, no matter what, just ask each other the physical and living status. Just a few minutes on the phone, so I can meet the emotional needs, make me happy all day.In contemporary society, fierce competition, the quickening pace of life, people to make a living, had morning to evening, busy, exhausted, rarely take into account the emotional needs of others and their own. The interaction between people is often only for money, and go for profit, rarely sit together to chat to talk, communicate. With the passage of time, between family members, relatives, friends, colleagues feeling more and more indifferent, gap, the gap is more and more deep, more and more alienated relationship, even for some trivial small taidongganhuo, hurt each other.Emotional communication need love and patience and mutual respect, trust and understanding and sincerely respect and trust others, love and help others. Only in this way, people can really achieve between and spiritual communication, each other to meet the emotional needs, life will be happy, life makes sense.翻譯：情感與溝通一個人生活在世上，除了衣食住行等必不可少的物質需求，還有更為重要的情感需求。這種情感需求只有在人與人之間相互交往、溝通中得以滿足。近幾年，老伴病退回滬，有時去京治病，住在女兒家養病。我獨自在疆工作、生活，家裡水、電、氣齊全，衣、食、住不愁，物質生活基本上有保障。然而我總覺得心裡空落落的，缺少點什麼。其實，說到底就是缺少情感生活。過去和老伴、女兒一起生活時並不覺察這一點，現在才明白，如果沒有情感生活，人生就像沙漠戈壁中的一棵草，碎石瓦礫裡的一條魚，將難以正常幸福地生活下去。因此，可以說情感即是人生。只有物質生活和情感生活都豐富多彩的人生，才是真切的、有意義的、有價值的人生。人生離不開情感，情感又離不開溝通。人的情感需求只有在人與人之間的相互交往、溝通中才能獲得。在那寂寞、孤獨的日子裡，我不喜歡節假日，寧可天天上班。因為上班時可以與辦公室的同事、朋友們一起工作，抽空談談心、聊聊天，情感需求得以滿足，生活充實有意義。節假日獨自在家，連個說話的人也沒有，又不愛出去玩，只好關在屋裡讀書、寫作，這也算是一種精神寄託吧。有時，老伴或女兒打來電話，我特別高興，也沒有什麼事，只是互相詢問身體、生活近況。短短几分鐘的電話，使我的情感需求得以滿足，令我幸福溫馨一整天。當代社會，競爭激烈，生活節奏加快，人們為了生活，不得不早出晚歸，忙忙碌碌，疲於奔命，很少顧及自己和別人的情感需求。人與人之間的交往也往往只為利而來，為利而去，很少坐在一起談心聊天，溝通思想。久而久之，家人、親友、同事之間的感情越來越淡漠，隔閡、鴻溝越來越深，關係越來越疏遠，甚至為一些雞毛蒜皮的小事大動肝火，互相傷害。情感交流需要有愛心和耐心，互相尊重、信任和理解，真心誠意地尊重、信任他人，關愛、幫助他人。只有這樣，入與人之間才能真正達到心靈的溝通，互相滿足情感的需求，生活才會幸福，人生才有意義。
Emotion and communicationA person living in the world, in addition to the basic necessities of life indispensable material needs, there are more important emotional needs. This kind of emotional needs only between people and people in social interaction, communication can be satisfied.In recent years, his wife returned to Beijing Shanghai disease, sometimes cure, living in her domestic disease. I was alone in the Xinjiang work, life, home water, electricity and gas facilities, clothing and living to worry about, basically living security. However, I always feel empty, the lack of what. In fact, in the final analysis is the lack of emotional life.Past and his wife and daughter together life did not perceive it. Now I understand, if there is no emotional life, a life is like the Gobi desert grass, in the rubble of a fish, difficult for normal happiness to live. Therefore, it can be said that emotion is life. Only material life and emotional life are rich and colorful life, is a real, meaningful and valuable life.Life can not be separated from the emotional, emotional and can not be separated from the communication. The emotional needs of people can only be obtained through the interaction and communication between people. In that lonely, lonely days, I do not like holidays, would rather go to work every day. Because when you go to work with the office of colleagues, friends work together, take the time to talk about the heart, chat, emotional needs to meet, enrich the meaning of life.Holidays alone at home, even a person who does not speak, and do not love to go out to play, had to close in the house reading, writing, which is also considered a spiritual sustenance bar. Sometimes, his wife or daughter phoned, I am very happy, no matter what, just ask each other the physical and living status. Just a few minutes on the phone, so I can meet the emotional needs, make me happy all day.In contemporary society, fierce competition, the quickening pace of life, people to make a living, had morning to evening, busy, exhausted, rarely take into account the emotional needs of others and their own. The interaction between people is often only for money, and go for profit, rarely sit together to chat to talk, communicate. With the passage of time, between family members, relatives, friends, colleagues feeling more and more indifferent, gap, the gap is more and more deep, more and more alienated relationship, even for some trivial small taidongganhuo, hurt each other.Emotional communication need love and patience and mutual respect, trust and understanding and sincerely respect and trust others, love and help others. Only in this way, people can really achieve between and spiritual communication, each other to meet the emotional needs, life will be happy, life makes sense.翻譯：情感與溝通一個人生活在世上，除了衣食住行等必不可少的物質需求，還有更為重要的情感需求。這種情感需求只有在人與人之間相互交往、溝通中得以滿足。近幾年，老伴病退回滬，有時去京治病，住在女兒家養病。我獨自在疆工作、生活，家裡水、電、氣齊全，衣、食、住不愁，物質生活基本上有保障。然而我總覺得心裡空落落的，缺少點什麼。其實，說到底就是缺少情感生活。過去和老伴、女兒一起生活時並不覺察這一點，現在才明白，如果沒有情感生活，人生就像沙漠戈壁中的一棵草，碎石瓦礫裡的一條魚，將難以正常幸福地生活下去。因此，可以說情感即是人生。只有物質生活和情感生活都豐富多彩的人生，才是真切的、有意義的、有價值的人生。人生離不開情感，情感又離不開溝通。人的情感需求只有在人與人之間的相互交往、溝通中才能獲得。在那寂寞、孤獨的日子裡，我不喜歡節假日，寧可天天上班。因為上班時可以與辦公室的同事、朋友們一起工作，抽空談談心、聊聊天，情感需求得以滿足，生活充實有意義。節假日獨自在家，連個說話的人也沒有，又不愛出去玩，只好關在屋裡讀書、寫作，這也算是一種精神寄託吧。有時，老伴或女兒打來電話，我特別高興，也沒有什麼事，只是互相詢問身體、生活近況。短短几分鐘的電話，使我的情感需求得以滿足，令我幸福溫馨一整天。當代社會，競爭激烈，生活節奏加快，人們為了生活，不得不早出晚歸，忙忙碌碌，疲於奔命，很少顧及自己和別人的情感需求。人與人之間的交往也往往只為利而來，為利而去，很少坐在一起談心聊天，溝通思想。久而久之，家人、親友、同事之間的感情越來越淡漠，隔閡、鴻溝越來越深，關係越來越疏遠，甚至為一些雞毛蒜皮的小事大動肝火，互相傷害。情感交流需要有愛心和耐心，互相尊重、信任和理解，真心誠意地尊重、信任他人，關愛、幫助他人。只有這樣，入與人之間才能真正達到心靈的溝通，互相滿足情感的需求，生活才會幸福，人生才有意義。