說明她(他)走後你有依賴，並不是你的幻想那樣，你會發現你喜歡的人其實也沒有怎麼好，你認識的人你也感覺沒有多少感情。因為你還在那個悲傷當中。你內心其實是需要她(他)的

首先說明你是一個善良的人，不忍心傷害別人。能站在對方的角度考慮問題，這是難能可貴的。另一方面，又說明你做決定不夠堅決，有點猶豫，懷疑自己是否做對了。當然，最根本的原因還是你放不下他，說明你心裡有他，但他又沒完全符合你的標準，從長遠出發，你決定長痛不如短痛，狠心放棄，這是對的。所以，不必難過，如果你勉強和他在一起，最終不會幸福的，還不如早一點給對方自由，也許你們各自的緣分就在前方等待你們。祝你好運！

Why do you have so thinking?

If you love her, you must hope she can be your wife, that you can everyday every time protect her,between you and her have happy time, happy life,happy family.

If you hate her, you leave her, you maybe very bright,why you sad?I think you have a bit love, maybe you jealousy. I see,you hope that she become your own belongings, you can sometime use her body,her wise, and you needn"t responsible.

I see,you are love yourself only.