Widow is a Chinese word, which refers to a woman without a husband, and later refers to a woman who has lost her husband. It is said in the poem Xiaoya OTA that "there is a legacy, and there is a stagnant ear, which is the benefit of widows." It is also called widow and undead.
The word widow, originally without the derogatory meaning of discrimination, is only a description of the state. A woman who dies her husband is called a widow. In ancient times, a woman who was "divorced" and returned to her mother"s home, that is, a divorced woman, cannot be called a widow. But in some places, people call divorced women widows and call them divorced widows.
Cao Cao, he is a famous statesman and strategist in the history of our country. Some say he is a hero, others say he is a hero. There is no love in Cao Cao"s life dictionary.Cao Cao himself did not believe in so-called love. He wanted women, especially widows in other people"s homes.
One of the most famous stains in Cao Cao"s life is also one of the most famous rumours. This happened when Cao Cao fought with Zhang Xiu in Wancheng, when the guard of Wancheng defeated Zhang Xiu, Cao Cao surrendered to Cao Cao"s command.
Zou shi is the aunt of Zhang Xiu, who is the general of Wancheng鄒氏,是宛城守將張繡的嬸孃
Cao Cao found a very beautiful woman in the camp of the captives, so he put the woman into the account and played with it all night. Surprisingly, this woman is Zhang Xiu"s aunt. Feeling humiliated, Zhang Xiu suddenly set out to fight against Cao Cao, who lost general Dianwei
Sun Quan, married not only widows, but also relatives. Xu Shi, his concubine, first married Lu Shang of the same county. After Lu Shang died, Sun Quan married her to be a concubine in line with the principle that the fertile water would not flow to other people"s fields.
First, it"s mainly about beauty. Although they have three thousand beauties in their harem, they sometimes have aesthetic fatigue. Sometimes when they see beautiful women with special temperament, they will be attracted by them
The second reason is that for the sake of his own country, the emperor wanted to be neutral in the court. One way was marriage. At that time, only through marriage can he make his throne more stable. They also like to find some women with prominent family background as wives, which is good for themselves,
At that time, before Liu Bei took his wife Wu amaranth again, he already had Mrs. MI and sun Shangxiang, but he didn"t feel satisfied. Instead, he married Wu Lan, who was already a mother
The third reason is congeniality. In ancient times, the emperor still hoped that his harem would be more stable, so they hoped that his wife would be more generous and help him deal with the things in the harem and some political trivia, so this kind of woman is the best choice for them,
At that time, Sima Rui"s wife, Zheng achun, died shortly after she married her husband. At a chance, Sima Rui met Zheng achun and took her to the Imperial Palace and made her queen
斯嘉麗•約翰遜(Scarlett Johansson)，曾在電影《鋼鐵俠2》中飾演娜塔莎•羅曼諾夫一角，她是一名美豔的特工，自幼被訓練成特工，身體經基因改造後大大延緩了其衰老速度，並增強其免疫系統以及抗擊打能力，加上本身多年的各種體能及精神上的訓練，代號“黑寡婦”。黑寡婦是美國漫威漫畫旗下超級英雄，
今天我們就來談一下寡婦（widow）
寡婦是一個漢語詞彙，指沒有丈夫的婦人，後多指死了丈夫的婦人。語出《詩•小雅•大田》：“彼有遺秉，此有滯穗，伊寡婦之利。”，也稱遺孀、未亡人。
Widow is a Chinese word, which refers to a woman without a husband, and later refers to a woman who has lost her husband. It is said in the poem Xiaoya OTA that "there is a legacy, and there is a stagnant ear, which is the benefit of widows." It is also called widow and undead.
寡婦一詞，本來沒有歧視的貶義，只是一種狀態的描述。死了丈夫的女人才叫寡婦，而古時“被休”、退返孃家的，即現在的“離婚女"，都不能稱之為“寡婦”。但有些地方人們把離異的女人也稱為寡婦，並冠名以“離異寡”。
The word widow, originally without the derogatory meaning of discrimination, is only a description of the state. A woman who dies her husband is called a widow. In ancient times, a woman who was "divorced" and returned to her mother"s home, that is, a divorced woman, cannot be called a widow. But in some places, people call divorced women widows and call them divorced widows.
古代的皇帝或者將領都喜歡寡婦，我們來看兩個三國時期的著名人物
1.曹操，他是中國歷史上著名的政治家、軍事家。有人說他是梟雄，也有人說他是人傑，更有人用帶有鄙視的口氣叫他曹阿瞞。在曹操的人生字典裡面，是沒有愛情這個詞的。曹操這個人本身就不相信所謂愛情。他希望女人，尤其是別人家的寡婦。
Cao Cao, he is a famous statesman and strategist in the history of our country. Some say he is a hero, others say he is a hero. There is no love in Cao Cao"s life dictionary.Cao Cao himself did not believe in so-called love. He wanted women, especially widows in other people"s homes.
曹操一生中著名的汙點之一，也是最有名的緋聞之一，這件事發生在曹操與張繡作戰宛城之時，宛城的守將張繡打不過曹操便投降於曹操的麾下。
One of the most famous stains in Cao Cao"s life is also one of the most famous rumours. This happened when Cao Cao fought with Zhang Xiu in Wancheng, when the guard of Wancheng defeated Zhang Xiu, Cao Cao surrendered to Cao Cao"s command.
Zou shi is the aunt of Zhang Xiu, who is the general of Wancheng鄒氏,是宛城守將張繡的嬸孃
曹操在俘虜的陣營中發現有一個十分美貌的女人，於是，便將這個女人納入帳中玩弄了一夜。令人意外的是，這個女人恰恰是張繡的嬸孃。張繡倍感羞辱，便突然起兵反，打敗曹操，並且曹操失去了典韋將軍.
Cao Cao found a very beautiful woman in the camp of the captives, so he put the woman into the account and played with it all night. Surprisingly, this woman is Zhang Xiu"s aunt. Feeling humiliated, Zhang Xiu suddenly set out to fight against Cao Cao, who lost general Dianwei
2.孫權，娶的不僅是寡婦，而且還是親戚。他的妃子徐氏先是嫁給同郡的陸尚，陸尚去世後，本著肥水不流外人田的原則，孫權娶她做了妃子。
Sun Quan, married not only widows, but also relatives. Xu Shi, his concubine, first married Lu Shang of the same county. After Lu Shang died, Sun Quan married her to be a concubine in line with the principle that the fertile water would not flow to other people"s fields.
為什麼他們會喜歡寡婦呢？
第一，主要還是美色，雖然她們後宮佳麗三千，但是偶爾也會有審美疲勞的時候，有時候看到長相貌美並且氣質特別好的女子，就會被他們所吸引
First, it"s mainly about beauty. Although they have three thousand beauties in their harem, they sometimes have aesthetic fatigue. Sometimes when they see beautiful women with special temperament, they will be attracted by them
第二個原因就是為了自己的江山所考慮，皇帝想要在朝廷中立足腳有一種方式就是聯姻，當時透過聯姻才可以讓自己皇位更加的穩固，並且他們就喜歡找一些家世背景比較顯赫的女性作為妻子，這樣對自己也是比較有好處的
The second reason is that for the sake of his own country, the emperor wanted to be neutral in the court. One way was marriage. At that time, only through marriage can he make his throne more stable. They also like to find some women with prominent family background as wives, which is good for themselves,
在當時劉備再取妻子吳莧之前，他已經有糜夫人跟孫尚香了，可是他並沒有覺得滿足，而是娶了已經為人母的吳莧吳
At that time, before Liu Bei took his wife Wu amaranth again, he already had Mrs. MI and sun Shangxiang, but he didn"t feel satisfied. Instead, he married Wu Lan, who was already a mother
第三個原因就是情投意合，皇帝在古代還是希望自己後宮中可以更加的穩定下來，所以他們更希望自己的妻子可以舉止大方，能幫他處理好後宮的事物和政治上面的一些瑣事，所以這種女性對他們來說才是最好的選擇
The third reason is congeniality. In ancient times, the emperor still hoped that his harem would be more stable, so they hoped that his wife would be more generous and help him deal with the things in the harem and some political trivia, so this kind of woman is the best choice for them,
當時司馬睿的妻子鄭阿春，因為在和丈夫結婚不久之後，丈夫就離世了，在一次偶然的機會，司馬睿就遇到了鄭阿春於是就把她接到皇宮中，立為了皇后
At that time, Sima Rui"s wife, Zheng achun, died shortly after she married her husband. At a chance, Sima Rui met Zheng achun and took her to the Imperial Palace and made her queen