堆雪人是最簡單的事了，找塊平地和溼雪，自己捏三個小雪球，在雪地上滾成大雪球，疊起來，接合處加雪補強，用胡蘿蔔當鼻子，兩塊烤肉用的炭當眼睛（彩色乒乓球也行），找幾個小石頭做嘴巴，兩根樹枝當手臂，幾個彩色乒乓球當釦子，再加上帽子，圍巾，就是標準雪人了。

很容易，試試看，很好玩！

Part1

Finding Wet Snow and a Flat Spot1Check for snow that’s moist and packable. If your snow is too fluffy or powdery, you will not be able to make a snowman. Go out to the snow and scoop some up between both of your hands. Press it together, and if it forms into a ball, you’ll be able to make a snowman.[1]If the snow falls apart, it’s no good for making a snowman. If you are determined, you can mix some water into the powdery snow as you roll it up, but this is not guaranteed to work.2Find a flat section of lawn. If you build your snowman on a slope, it may topple over. You also don’t want to build on asphalt or cement because those store more heat, and your snowman might get in the way of you driving or walking. Make sure the area has enough snow for you to use, as well.3Build the snowman in the shade. If you want your snowman to last as long as possible without melting, build it somewhere that doesn’t get much direct sunlight. If there’s a big shady tree near you, that’s a great spot. Making the snowman close to a building also provides shade for some of the day.This is just to help the snowman last longer. If you don’t have much shade around, that’s okay.Part2Rolling up a Snowman1Pack a snowball with your hands for the bottom section. Scoop up a handful of snow with both hands. Pack it together into a round shape. Add snow to the ball in your hands until it is about one foot (30.5 cm) in diameter, or until it gets too heavy.Make sure you are wearing warm, waterproof gloves, or your hands will start to hurt from handling the snow.2Roll the ball along the ground to make the bottom section. Set the snowball on the ground and begin rolling it forward. As you roll, avoid making a cylinder by changing the direction you’re rolling the ball. Keep rolling until the ball is about three feet (1 meter) wide.[2]Stop rolling the snowball in the spot where you want the snowman to be. Make sure you start somewhere near that spot, and roll the ball so that you end up there.It often works well to roll the ball in a large spiral, but take note that this will leave an obvious pattern in the snow.Pat your snowball together every so often to keep excess snow from falling off.3Form the middle section. Scoop up some snow in both hands and pack it into a tight ball. Add more snow until the ball is too heavy to carry. Put it on the ground and roll it around as you did for the bottom section. This time, stop when the ball reaches about two feet (.6 meters) wide.[3]Roll the snowball in a circle around the bottom section, or in a straight line away from it and back to it. This way when you finish the ball you won’t have to carry it a long way to the bottom section.4Lift the middle section onto the bottom section. Depending on how big you are, have someone help you lift the large ball. Bend your knees and be sure to stand up with your legs rather than your back. Pick it up and gently set it on the bottom section. Make sure that it sits right in the center of the bottom ball.It helps if you flatten the top side of the bottom ball and flatten the bottom side of the middle ball. This helps the middle section sit firmly on the bottom section.5Make a one foot (30.5 cm) snowball for the head. Scoop up one last ball of snow for the head. Pack it with your hands until it is about one foot (30.5 cm) wide. You should be able to make the head without rolling it, but it’s okay to roll it if you want to. When you finish, carefully place it on top of the snowman’s body.6Pack some snow between the sections. Once the three sections are in place, scoop up more snow and pack it between each section. This will give the snowman a uniform look from top to bottom, rather than looking like three snowballs piled on top of each other.Part3Decorating Your Snowman1Stick a carrot in the middle of the head for a nose. Grab a long raw carrot from the grocery store for the snowman’s nose. Place it in the middle of the top snowball. Make sure you place it so there is room above it for eyes and below it for a mouth.Making the snowman your own is all about creativity. If you have something else that you think would look cool as a nose, use that instead.2Use buttons, pebbles, or charcoal for eyes. Place them above the carrot and space them evenly to the right and the left. Push them into the head, and twist them in a circle so that they stick in the snow. Any round object will work for the eyes.Other options to use for eyes are yellow ping-pong balls, blue rubber bouncy balls, or large green plastic gems.3Make a mouth with a row of pebbles or charcoal. Use the same thing you used for the eyes to make the mouth, or mix it up with other round objects. Place the mouth under the nose, but not too close to the middle section.Cut a mouth out of felt, stick some fake plastic teeth in the face, or bend a piece of rubber tubing into a smile.4Add two sticks for the snowman’s arms. Find a couple of sticks that are about one inch (2.5 cm) or less wide and around three feet (1 meter) long. Push the sticks into the middle section of the snowman. Position the sticks so they are angled up or down, giving the snowman the look you like best.Before the arms, if you want, put a shirt or coat of some kind around the body of the snowman.Also use old broom sticks, golf clubs, or fake skeleton arms!5Top off the snowman with a hat and scarf. This is where you have even more space for creativity. Grab an old ball cap, cowboy hat, fedora, or top hat for the snowman’s head. Wrap a colorful scarf around its neck. Use old stuff that you don’t mind possibly ruining.Add a tie, sunglasses, or any other accessories to make the snowman stand out from the rest.

這個問題歸一個大類，屬於是，大家要孩子是為了啥？

1、人類的自然產物。

2、意外

3、防老

4、延續

5、沒事幹，養個孩子玩。

不管你目的是什麼，或者什麼目的都沒有，但是既然有了孩子，就要讓他慢慢成長起來，好好地生活，幸福、快樂。

人不可能什麼都會，我們不會寫字，是老師、家長教的，我們不會說話，也是父母教的，輪到孩子堆雪人了，我們不會？雪人的意義不是在於好不好看，在於陪伴。你就是堆得像條狗，孩子也不會嫌棄，你錄個影片當做回憶，20年後回頭看，你會知道，這個時刻才是最美好的時刻。

生兒育女不容易，只能從陪伴中找到樂趣，不要因為瑣事，把生命中最有意義的事忽略過去！

其實就跟小時候玩泥巴差不多吧，但是堆雪人之前，一定要記得穿厚一點，最好選擇不沾雪的衣服，戴上洗衣服用的塑膠手套，就可以開始推雪人了（雪要厚才能堆出雪人來）

首先把雪在手裡團個小球，然後不斷的加雪，讓雪球越來越大。之後你可以把做好的雪球，放在雪地上滾，慢慢的小雪球會變成大雪球，把大雪球作為雪人的身體。用同樣的方法滾個雪球，做雪人的頭。以後你可以藉助身邊的道具，比如樹枝做雪人的手，小石頭、煤球、紐扣、玉米等等作為雪人的眼睛、鼻子什麼的。這樣一個簡單的雪人就做好了！

其實這事的重點不是你會不會堆雪人，而是你陪不陪孩子玩。即使你堆不成球，但是你陪他一起玩雪的這個過程才是最開心、最重要的！

確實很少聽說堆雪人都不會的家長，因為絕大多數家長在小的時候都是堆過雪人，玩過雪仗的。

如果實在不會，不妨陪著孩子，當一個陪客也挺好。讓孩子來主導，家長給孩子打打下手。其實很多的時候，孩子的想象力，創造力遠超我們成人的想象，我們的家長也沒有必要去主導或者干涉孩子的想象和思維。

我記得我們小的時候堆的最簡單的雪人，就是一個腦袋一個身子腦袋上放上石子或者木棍，做成眼睛鼻子嘴巴的形狀就可以了。這種簡單的雪人，其實無論是孩子和成人，都可以很輕鬆的堆出來。

事實上，在和孩子玩堆雪人的時候，還可以擴充套件到其他的動物或物體，比如小狗，小貓，烏龜什麼的，只要讓孩子玩得開心盡興就可以了，孩子在這個動手的過程中，也會提升動手能力，並促進思維的發育和成熟。

所以，堆雪人只是陪孩子玩一個動手遊戲而已，家長也沒有必要過於較真，讓孩子來主導，玩得開心盡興就可以了。當然，如果家長能夠把一些教育融入到堆雪人的遊戲中，就更棒了。

孩子要大人陪著堆雪人，不是要一個結果，是要這個過程~

堆雪人又不是比賽，哪有會不會的。再說了，孩子看到下雪興奮，要求堆個雪人，只是發洩興奮情緒的一個出口，不是要求大人給TA創造一個藝術品，家長哪裡來的壓力！

捏個雪球，滾一滾，滾個大的做身子，滾個小的當腦袋，帶個草帽，挖倆眼睛，裝個胡蘿蔔鼻子，畫個彎彎嘴，有個意思就得了。嫌大的費勁，或者雪少堆不起來，捏個小雪人兒也中，樂趣是一樣的。自己不會堆，就聽孩子指揮，按照TA的想象力來，醜點兒怪點兒不打緊，樂樂呵呵的才重要！而且孩子想象力還豐富，聽TA的，沒準出精品~

真碰上難纏的主兒，非要堆出個迪斯尼，堆出個海底世界，實在完不成，咱還可以打岔啊。反正孩子注意力容易渙散，把TA注意力引開，也能交差不是！

總之啊，孩子就是要你陪TA，有你全心全意陪著，鬧一鬧笑一笑，這雪就沒白下！笑夠了、鬧累了，再領去吃頓好的，就是皆大歡喜的一天~

下雪的日子越來越少了，享受冬天吧~

雪人不會堆，來趟大東北你就會了，大東北還能學習堆各種各樣的雪人，而且小朋友們都是混在一起玩的，從來不用大人跟著陪著，大東北還有一點好的，就是賊冷，堆兩下雪人就放棄了

堆雪人不要太簡單哦。要給自己的孩子樹立一個榜樣。這樣才會促進親子關係哦。

沒什麼難得，拿一把鐵鍬對一個底座出來。然後再自己滾一個大的圓球，放到底座上，這樣雪人的身體和頭都出來了。再拿一個黑色的東西給他畫一個眉毛眼睛，然後去家裡找一個紅蘿蔔，給他擦到鼻子上，這樣就有一個紅紅的長鼻子了，然後再找一個家裡不用的微博給雪人圍上去。如果有帽子的話，也可以再給雪莉帶一個帽子。然後再找兩把短勺子給雪人當胳膊，這樣就大功告成了。

其實沒什麼難的，只要用心去做都能做好，相信你可以的，以後不要總缺席孩子的一些活動了，要參與進去，給孩子做一個好的榜樣。

關於陪同孩子堆雪人而自己不會的情況。其實，孩子本身也不會，他要的是一種陪伴，合作，引導。哪怕最後你們堆出來的是一隻猴子。他也會很高興。因為這是你們合作努力堆出來的成果，雖然不完美，但是很開心。合作的過程是一種財富。是很多人不曾擁有的美好時光，

作為父母，陪同孩子的童年，幫助他完成一些任務，引導他做一些自己可能無法完成的任務就是對孩子品行的養成。做事學會用腦子，如果自己搞不定，可以考慮合作或者放手讓別人做。這也是解決問題的辦法。起碼孩子做任何事都會有主見，做自己力所能及的事情，讓會做的人發揮作用，不會死磕到底，這是本事！進入社會後這種才能會讓孩子更好的適應。從而不會讓他患得患失，格格不入而引起心理負擔過重。

可能說的太複雜了。說點最簡單的吧。有家人陪伴的兒童和留守兒童心理是有很大區別的。樂觀，積極，開朗，外向，活潑，自信，這是一種。自卑，內向，不愛說話，不愛笑，叛逆，不聽話。這也是一種。不能一概而論，但是起碼這是對比之後有過調查的結果。兒童心理健康與否，跟家人特別是父母的陪伴是有重要關係的！

陪伴，是最好的禮物！