Confusion comes from "uncertainty", from the state of "not thinking clearly", and fear and anxiety about the unknown future. Coping with confusion is to find certainty, to know what you want, what you can do, what you should do, and to execute with faith. The best way to find certainty is to set your own goals. No goal, no strategy; No strategy, no plan; No plan, no action. It"s like you"re stepping on watermelon rind，it feels like you can slide anywhere. Without goals and plans, one doesn"t know where one is going. When you feel that the road you have chosen is difficult, tired and uncomfortable. It means you"re probably growing, you"re on the way up. When you feel the path is easy, pleasant, and comfortable. It means you"re probably running away, you"re going downhill.
當你20歲的時候，你在乎每個人的想法。當你40歲的時候，你不再去在乎任何人的想法。當你60歲的時候，你會意識到，首先，根本就沒有人曾經在乎過你。When you"re 20, you care what everyone thinks. When you"re 40, you stop caring what everyone thinks. When you"re 60, you realize no one was ever thinking about you in the first place.
人生的旅程就是這樣，用大把時間迷茫，在幾個瞬間成長。
The journey of life is like this, with a lot of time lost, in a few moments of growth.
寫給迷茫的你，你オ20歲，你可以成為任何你想成為的人。
To the confused you, you are only 20 years old, you can be anything you want to be.
迷茫，來自於“不確定性”，來自於“想不清楚”的狀態，以及對未知的未來充滿恐懼和焦慮。應對迷茫，在於找到確定性，知道自己想要什麼，能做什麼，該做什麼，百分百的篤信執行。 而尋找確定性的最好辦法，就是制定屬於自己的目標。沒有目標，就沒有戰略；沒有戰略，就沒有計劃；沒有計劃，就沒有行動。你就像是踩在西瓜皮上一樣，感覺滑到哪裡都可以。沒有目標和計劃，人就不知道自己要去哪兒。 當你覺得選擇的路很艱難，很累，很難受的時候。 說明你可能在成長,你在走上坡路。當你覺得選擇的路很容易，很爽，很舒服的時候。說明你可能在逃避，你在走下坡路。
Confusion comes from "uncertainty", from the state of "not thinking clearly", and fear and anxiety about the unknown future. Coping with confusion is to find certainty, to know what you want, what you can do, what you should do, and to execute with faith. The best way to find certainty is to set your own goals. No goal, no strategy; No strategy, no plan; No plan, no action. It"s like you"re stepping on watermelon rind，it feels like you can slide anywhere. Without goals and plans, one doesn"t know where one is going. When you feel that the road you have chosen is difficult, tired and uncomfortable. It means you"re probably growing, you"re on the way up. When you feel the path is easy, pleasant, and comfortable. It means you"re probably running away, you"re going downhill.
當你20歲的時候，你在乎每個人的想法。當你40歲的時候，你不再去在乎任何人的想法。當你60歲的時候，你會意識到，首先，根本就沒有人曾經在乎過你。When you"re 20, you care what everyone thinks. When you"re 40, you stop caring what everyone thinks. When you"re 60, you realize no one was ever thinking about you in the first place.
人生的旅程就是這樣，用大把時間迷茫，在幾個瞬間成長。
The journey of life is like this, with a lot of time lost, in a few moments of growth.