我只需要知道在我傷心累了的時候還有哪些陪在我身邊聽我的煩惱的人有多少就好。

一，吵架時是 我們VS問題 而不是你VS我。When quarreling, it is our VS problem, not you VS me二，我想要的愛是舒服 沉默 是旗鼓相當的欣賞是你明知道我的缺點和我的黑暗面還會義無反顧擁抱我。

The love I want is comfort, silence, equal appreciation, knowing my shortcomings and my dark side and embracing me without hesitation.

三，“任何一段長久舒適 穩定的關係 都是花費了大量的時間和精力的 沒有什麼輕飄飄就能得到的好朋友好戀人 都是拿真心一次次撞出來的”。

"Any long-term comfortable and stable relationship takes a lot of time and energy, and good friends and lovers who can get without any lightness are knocked out with sincerity again and again."

四，吵架的時候你可以發脾氣 但是誰也不可以提分手。

You can lose your temper when quarreling, but no one can break up.

五，兩個人在一起多多少少會有矛盾 你要想的是應該怎麼好好相處下去 而不是考慮我們是否合不合適。

When two people are together, there will be more or less conflicts. What you have to think about is how to get along well, not whether we are suitable or not.

六，我們忙著吵架 忙著互相折磨 卻忘了初心 忘了所承諾過的 忘了對方對方眼裡的星辰大海 忘了我們是多麼艱辛一步步走到今天的。

We are busy quarreling and torturing each other, but we forget our initial heart, our promise, the stars and the sea in each other's eyes, and how hard we have come to today step by step.

七，像我這種人心裡不舒服也不會告訴你 要麼就是說話很衝要麼就是特別冷 你能猜出來最好猜不出來也就這樣了 我真的很難弄但也的確很好哄。

People like me don't feel well and won't tell you, either they talk very loudly or they are very cold. You can guess it, but you'd better not guess it. That's it. I'm really hard to get it, but it's really easy to coax.

八，沒有話題了可以再找 累了就給彼此空間 吵架了就好好解釋 不可以冷戰不可以說分手 我一直愛你。

There is no topic to talk about. If you are tired, give each other space to quarrel, and explain it well. You can't break up after the cold war. I always love you.

九，兩個人的溝通 理解真的很重要 就像不管男生女生都需要安全感 都需要彼此在累的時候靠著肩膀 這樣真的很暖 很幸福。

Communication and understanding between two people is really important, just like both boys and girls need a sense of security, and they need to lean on each other's shoulders when they are tired, so it is really warm and happy