大家在一起聊天的時候帶一帶不怎麼說話的我

When we talked together, I was in a quiet neighborhood

未知全貌不予置評的人，不隨便評價別人

Those who do not comment on the unknown are not free to judge others

分得清場合身份 不亂開玩笑

You know, keep it clean, don't kid around

做什麼事之前都會提前和你說一聲 而且是那種輕輕的和你說不是隔著大半個教室對你吼一句

Before doing anything will tell you in advance, and is the kind of gently and you say not half the classroom across from you to yell at you

能看出別人說話行為情商高的人 一定同樣也是一個情商高的人

The person who can see the High Eq in others'speech behavior must also be a high eq person

你給他發了好幾條訊息會一條一條逐條回覆

You sent him a bunch of messages, and you're gonNA answer them one by one

把對人的尊重落實到實處

Respect for human beings to the letter

能察覺出來我的情緒然後轉移話題我拒絕了

To pick up on my emotions and change the subject. Damn it

地鐵上戴耳機 接電話轉過身去 擁擠的電梯裡揹著書包不亂晃

Wear headphones on the subway, turn around to answer the phone, carrying a backpack in a crowded elevator do not wander

我說話的時候會認真聽

I listen when I talk

無論做什麼事之前會詢問我一下

Ask me before you do anything

能在我最難過的時候想到來鼓勵我誇我而不是更加地指責我的人

The person who comes to me in my darkest hour and encourages me rather than criticizes me more

懂得換位思考 察覺別人的情緒

To be able to put yourself in someone else's shoes, to feel their emotions

保持輕快生活的秘訣，就是別總把熱情花在不相干的地方。不在乎你的人怎麼討好也沒用，在乎你的人就算看透你的陰暗面也不會走遠。說到底，人還是要把時間和精力留給真正值得的人

The secret to a happy life is not to spend your passion in irrelevant places. It's no use trying to please people who don't care about you. People who care about you won't go far even if they see through your dark side. At the end of the day, you have to give your time and energy to the people who are really worth it

能察覺到我不引人注意的小情緒

Can detect my inconspicuous little moods

說話的時候會認真地看著你的眼睛 認真傾聽你所說的話

Look you in the eye when you speak and listen to what you have to say