我聽到了1個不肯復婚的故事，是個男的，中年人了。
在這個故事中，沒有人會指責男人不願復婚，只會說女人咎由自取，她不值得同情，傷害了很多人的感情。
無腦又不滿足現狀的人通常會做出一些不可理喻的事情。
故事中的女人，她喜歡上了小鮮肉，執意要和相伴多年的老公離婚，並表示自己要淨身出戶，其實就是不想帶著孩子。老公被逼無奈只好同意離婚。
離完婚後，這個女人就跟著小男生去見父母，結果小男生的母親堅決反對。因為這個女人比小男生大了十幾歲，小男生的母親懷疑這個女人不能再生育了。
這個女人腦子壞掉了！自己年齡不小了，兩個孩子也大了，還要和小弟弟談什麼姐弟戀，居然還當真了，拋下老公孩子，淨身出戶鬧離婚，結果呢？人家小男生母親肯定是無法接受的。
你能把相處十幾年的老公孩子扔在一邊，哪怕是淨身出戶都要離婚！這樣狠心，你讓人家小男生的父母怎麼想?而且，小男生父母想娶兒媳婦抱孫子，你自己都差幾年可以抱孫子了，叫人家怎麼同意兒子娶你，反對才是正常的。
相差太大的姐弟戀要慎重啊，不要覺得自己的婚姻平淡無奇，就要鬧騰一番。
回到她的前夫為什麼不願復婚。
她的前夫是跑長途客運的，掙錢還可以。他們的大孩子上中學時，就在城裡買了房子。她每天就是洗衣做飯，照顧兩個孩子。在大家眼裡，她的日子過得挺不錯呀。
不知道是帶孩子煩了還是覺得無所事事，竟然背叛了老公，出軌去和小男生搞婚外戀。
她老公徹底惱了，同意她“淨身出戶”的要求，而且離婚之後就不願搭理她了。
她居然無視“淨身出戶意味著孩子不要了，啥也沒了”。而相戀的小弟弟，其母親又不同意兒子娶她，小男生也受不了父母的折騰，索性兩個人就談崩了。這下，她傻眼了，無家無業，無房無車，一無所有了。
她淨身出戶、不要孩子，但孩子還是依賴母親的，當女人厚著臉皮回前夫家看孩子的時候，孩子們顯而易見的高興。而她的前夫又要出去跑長途掙錢，沒辦法照顧孩子，所以，女人就賴在前夫家裡，以照顧孩子為由不走了。但前夫始終不原諒她，不復婚。
也許有人勸過男人看在孩子的份上就復婚吧，這樣對孩子來說比較好。但，背叛婚姻是不值得原諒的事，無論男女，畢竟出軌只有零次和無數次的區別，有第一次就意味著還會有下次，容忍只會讓對方肆無忌憚。
她前夫不願復婚的理由，一是太丟人；二是破鏡重圓，如初太難，感情再也回不去了；第三，女人離開的時候太狠心，連孩子都不肯要了；第四，誰的眼睛裡容不得沙子了，對傷害自己的人通常都會反擊的呀！
真是特反感這個女人，賴在前夫家裡為哪樣?真的以為能賴一輩子嗎？
前夫不願復婚，孩子現在還小，有些事不懂，女人或許能仗著孩子對她的依賴待幾年，等孩子大了，恐怕會覺得她做得不妥，甚至會厭惡她。
這個故事值得大家思考，讓我們來看看這個故事裡，女人犯了哪幾個低階錯誤。
第一，不知足！老公掙錢，自己帶孩子，對老公和孩子負起責任，這也算是幸福的生活，她卻不甘心這樣的平凡生活。
第二，對姐弟戀有誤解，不是所有的姐弟戀都會有好結局的。
第三，她太自私了，沒有站在對方父母的角度考慮，所以，她的姐弟戀註定失敗。沒有為自己的孩子著想，當初把自己的婚姻連同孩子當一塊破布一樣扔掉了，現在想復婚，難了。
漢譯英：先劃掉定語，找出句子主架構（主謂賓+狀），然後依照英語排序原則翻譯之。
換句話說，
要說/寫英語=3個簡單步驟：｛1.處理中文資訊，拆分各種語（主語、謂語、賓語、狀語、定語2.調成英文語序，即按照公式（主謂賓+狀，定語附著其修飾的任意名詞）進行排列3.翻譯成單詞或片語代入之）。
I heard a story about a man who refused to remarry. He was a middle-aged man.
In this story, no one will accuse a man of not wanting to remarry, but only that a woman is responsible for herself. She is not worthy of sympathy and has hurt many people's feelings.
The woman in the story, who fell in love with xiaoxianrou, insisted on divorcing her husband, who had been with her for many years, and said that she wanted to clean herself out of the house, but in fact she didn't want to take her children with her. Her husband was forced to divorce.
After the divorce, the woman followed the boy to see her parents. As a result, the boy's mother strongly opposed it. Because the woman was more than a decade older than the boy, the boy's mother suspected that the woman could no longer have children.
This woman is out of her mind! I'm not young, and my two children are older. I still have to talk about sister brother relationship with my little brother. I really mean it. I leave my husband's children behind and go out of the house to get a divorce. What happens? It must be unacceptable to the mother of a boy.
You can get along with more than ten years of husband and child aside, even if it is clean out of the house to divorce! What do you want the parents of a boy to think? Moreover, if the parents want to marry their daughter-in-law and have grandchildren, you are a few years away from having grandchildren. It's normal to ask people to agree with their son to marry you and object.
If there is too much difference between sister and brother, you should be careful. Don't feel that your marriage is ordinary, just make a fuss.
Back to why her ex husband didn't want to remarry.
Her ex husband is a long-distance passenger, making money is OK. Their older child bought a house in the city when he was in middle school. She washes, cooks and takes care of her two children every day. In everyone's eyes, her life is pretty good.
I don't know if I'm tired of taking care of my children or I feel that I have nothing to do, so I betray my husband and cheat on the boy to have an extramarital affair.
Her husband was completely annoyed, agreed to her "clean out" request, and after the divorce would not talk to her.
She even ignored that "going out of the house means no more children and nothing.". And the little brother, whose mother didn't agree with her son to marry her, couldn't stand the parents' toss, so the two simply broke up. This time, she was stupid, no home, no job, no house, no car, nothing.
She went out of the house and didn't want children, but the children still depended on their mother. When the woman went back to her ex husband's house to look after the children, the children were obviously happy. Her ex husband had to go out for a long distance to earn money, so she couldn't take care of her children. So the woman stayed at her ex husband's house and refused to leave on the ground of taking care of her children. But her ex husband never forgave her and never remarried.
Maybe some people have advised men to remarry for the sake of their children, which is better for children. However, betrayal of marriage is not worth forgiving. No matter men or women, after all, there is only a difference between zero and countless times of infidelity. The first time means there will be another time, and tolerance will only make each other unscrupulous.
The reasons for her ex husband's unwillingness to remarry are as follows: first, it's too humiliating; second, it's too hard for her to get married again; third, when a woman leaves, she's too cruel to even have a child; fourth, who can't hold sand in her eyes? They usually fight back against those who hurt themselves!
I really dislike this woman. Why do you stay in my ex husband's house? Do you really think that you can stay for a lifetime?
The former husband is unwilling to remarry. The child is still young and does not understand some things. A woman may be able to rely on her child's dependence for a few years. When the child is older, she may feel that she has done something wrong and even dislike her.
This story is worth thinking about. Let's see what low-level mistakes women make in this story.
First, dissatisfaction! Her husband earns money, takes care of her children, and takes responsibility for her husband and children. This is also a happy life, but she is not willing to live such an ordinary life.
Second, there are misunderstandings about sibling love. Not all sibling love will have a good ending.
Third, she is too selfish to consider from the perspective of the other party's parents, so her brother-in-law relationship is doomed to failure. I didn't think about my children. I used to throw away my marriage and children as rags. Now it's hard to remarry.