庚子年 己丑月 辛巳日

02 FEB.TUESDAY對話和下棋一樣，是需要對手的。勢均力敵才能維持長久的趣味。

你是什麼樣的人，就會吸引什麼樣的人，這句話只對了一半。而是，你是什麼樣的人，最終就會留住什麼樣的人。

What kind of person you are, what kind of person you will attract. This sentence is only half true. It's about who you are, who you will keep in the end.

真正的朋友，一定在見識、心性、資源上是相當的。

A true friend must be equal in knowledge, disposition and resources.

安妮寶貝的話，“對話原來和下棋一樣，是需要對手的。勢均力敵才能維持長久的趣味。”更是指友情的精神層面，內心的相通，步伐才會一致，互相欣賞，才會彼此尊重。

In the words of Annie baby, "dialogue is the same as playing chess, it needs opponents. Only a close balance can maintain long-term interest. " What's more, it refers to the spiritual level of friendship. Only when we are interlinked can we keep pace, appreciate each other and respect each other.

人的一生，始終在找“面目上陌生，精神上熟悉”的那個人，那是與自己相似的靈魂，但在這之前，自己的靈魂先要保持獨立。

All one's life, one is always looking for the person who is "unfamiliar in appearance and familiar in spirit". That is the soul similar to one's own, but before that, one's own soul should be independent.

老祖宗的話無比正確：以利相交，利盡則散；以勢相交，勢去則傾；以權相交，權失則棄；惟以心相交，方成其久遠。

The words of our ancestors are extremely correct: if we intersect with each other, we will disperse if we are exhausted; if we intersect with potential, we will incline if we go away; if we intersect with power, we will abandon if we lose power; only if we intersect with our hearts, we will be long-term.

以真心，才可稱為朋友。從不羨慕那些朋友很多的人，平生有二三好友，一二知己，便已足夠。

Only with sincerity can we be called friends. Never envy those who have many friends. It is enough to have two or three friends and one or two confidants.

心照不宣，彼此陪伴，可相濡以沫，亦可相忘於江湖。

Tacit understanding, accompany each other, can help each other, can also forget in the lake.