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18 DEC.FRIDAY互相遷就最長遠，雙向奔赴才有意義。

在微博上看見一個話題：不主動找你的人，有必要聊下去嗎？

I saw a topic on Weibo: is it necessary to talk to people who don't take the initiative to find you?

底下有條回答，讓人記憶猶新，十分扎心：在這個吃飽睡好的時代裡，不主動聯絡你，就是因為你在對方心裡沒有那麼重要。

There is an answer at the bottom, which is fresh in people's memory. It is very penetrating: in this era of eating and sleeping well, I don't take the initiative to contact you because you are not so important in the other party's heart.

忙碌，只是藉口，不在乎才是理由。真心喜歡你，在乎你的人，再忙也會抽個空隙給你發訊息，生怕忽視了你。

Busy, just an excuse, do not care is the reason. Really like you, care about you people, no matter how busy will take a gap to send you messages, afraid to ignore you.

And the people who don't care about you, most of the wechat you send out doesn't reply. In their words, the most common reason is busy.

想送你回家的人，東南西北都順路；想見你的人，二十四小時都有空；不喜歡你的人，順路都會繞著走。

Those who want to see you home are on the way; those who want to see you are free 24 hours a day; those who don't like you will walk around.

你永遠叫不醒一個裝睡的人，因為他們二十四小時都在淺睡。你也感動不了一個不愛你的人，因為最後感動的人只有你自己。

You can never wake a man who pretends to sleep, because they are sleeping for twenty-four hours. You can't move a person who doesn't love you, because you are the only one who can move you.

彆著急，你終會遇到一個人，他對你二十四小時有空；在你跑著去見他的時候，他一定也是同樣向你跑來。

Don't worry, you will meet someone who is free for you 24 hours; when you run to see him, he must also run to you.

所以，慢慢來吧，等那個願意和你雙向奔赴的人。

So take your time and wait for the person who is willing to go both ways with you.

要記住，談戀愛，多喜歡都沒用，雙向奔赴的感情才有意義。

Remember, it's useless to love as much as you like. The two-way love is meaningful.