每個人並不孤單
以前的我認為每一個人都是孤孤單單的一個個體,沒有誰能陪誰到最後,每個人的人生只能是他自己的,但我發現我錯了,命運知道一個人的孤獨,於是有些人就出現在你生命中。可能真的沒有誰能陪誰到最後,但他們會在你人生中出現,他們的到來可能並不是讓你明白一些大道理,只是平平淡淡地陪你走過一段時間,讓你不要感到很孤獨。每一個人並不孤單。
不要去推開他們
如果有些人註定會和你的人生綁在一起,那就請不要輕易地去推開他們,以前的我認為人的一生就需要自己去任何決定,其他的人只會影響你的每一個判斷,讓你做出並不是你本意的決定,那樣的人生不算自己的人生,但其實誰的人生中沒有牽掛呢?誰做決定是不顧一切呢?這才是最真實的人生,他們的出現是陪你走過一段路,是讓你明白一些人生的道理,是當你在一個人追逐自己最終夢想感到孤獨時會回想起有一群人曾經陪伴過你,有一些溫暖的記憶會溫暖你的心,如果一個人真正地做到無牽無掛,我相信那也不能算是人了,人是有溫度的,他並不是一個冷冰冰的,人的每一個決定帶有猶豫和妥協的,但我相信那種猶豫和妥協是自己心甘情願的,是為了那些陪你走過的人。沒有人能做到一生無牽無掛,但正是那種猶猶豫豫、權衡再三的樣子構成了一個可愛的人,人生從來不算一個人,為了所謂的完全自己,而故意去躲開和壓抑而走完的人生又能算是完整嗎?那樣的人生可能最後只是一段冰冷冷的記憶吧。那樣的人生你還會有勇氣走下去嗎?人生就像是一顆光禿禿的大樹,只有枝條的樹肯定很難看吧,而那些人和事就像是樹葉,它們把樹枝之間的空隙填補,它們讓一顆光禿禿的樹變成了一個枝葉茂盛的大樹。
總有人會笨拙地愛著你
人生本苦,但有了他們就是荔枝味的糖果,他們會用著他們的方式給你溫暖,讓你有勇氣去抵抗人的孤獨,會給你繼續走下去的勇氣,會讓你對於第二天太陽的升起而期待,會讓你對於生活充滿熱情,也許有時你不理解他們的做法,不認同他們的觀點,認為他們完全不懂你,請記住他們也是人,他們不知道你在想什麼,他們只能去猜,他們只能以他們的方式去愛你,可能有時會顯得有點笨拙,但被人笨拙地愛著是一件多麼可愛而又珍貴的事呀,所以千萬千萬不要輕易地去傷害他們,去推開他們,因為你也是他們生活下去的動力,你也讓他們變得有勇氣去抵禦生活中的苦難,你們都是彼此繼續走下去的意義。
Someone will make you passionate about life
一、Everyone is not alone
I used to think that everyone is a lonely individual, no one can accompany anyone to the end, everyone's life can only be his own, but I found that I was wrong, fate knew a person's loneliness, so Some people appear in your life. It may be true that no one can accompany anyone to the end, but they will appear in your life. Their arrival may not let you understand some principles, but just walk with you for a while, so that you don’t feel lonely. . Everyone is not alone.
二、Don't push them away
If some people are destined to be tied to your life, please don’t push them away lightly. I used to think that people’s lives need to make any decisions on their own. Other people will only affect your every judgment. Let you make a decision that is not what you intended. That kind of life is not your own life, but in fact, whose life is not concerned? Who makes the decision desperate? This is the most real life. Their appearance is to accompany you for a while, to make you understand some truths of life, and to remember that a group of people have been with you when you are alone in chasing your final dream. You, there are some warm memories that will warm your heart. If a person is truly carefree, I believe that he can’t be regarded as a person. A person has a temperature. He is not a cold person. A decision comes with hesitation and compromise, but I believe that hesitation and compromise are my own will, for those who accompany you. No one can live without worry, but it is the hesitation and weighing that constitutes a lovely person. Life is never a person. For the so-called complete self, he deliberately avoids and Can a depressed and finished life be considered complete? That kind of life may be just a cold memory at the end. Would you still have the courage to go on like that? Life is like a big bare tree. A tree with only branches is definitely ugly, and those people and things are like leaves. They fill in the gaps between the branches, and they turn a bare tree into one. Big tree with lush foliage.
三、Someone will love you clumsily
Life is bitter, but with them, they are lychee-flavored candies. They will use their way to warm you, let you have the courage to resist people’s loneliness, will give you the courage to go on, and make you second Looking forward to the rising of the sun will make you enthusiastic about life. Maybe sometimes you don’t understand what they do, don’t agree with them, think they don’t understand you at all, remember that they are also humans, they don’t know you are They can only guess what they think. They can only love you the way they do. It may seem a little clumsy at times, but it is so cute and precious to be awkwardly loved, so thousands Don't hurt them easily and push them away, because you are also the driving force for them to live, and you have made them courageous to resist the suffering in life. You are all the meaning of continuing to go on with each other.
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參考資料:百度百科
翻譯:谷歌翻譯