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23 DEC.WEDNESDAY勿在別人心中修行自己，勿在自己心中強求別人。

很多人過著日復一日的生活，上班為了下班，下班為了第二天上班，日復一日慌慌張張也不過是為了碎銀幾兩，可偏偏這碎銀幾兩，壓斷了世人肩膀。

Many people live a day-to-day life. They go to work in order to get off work and work for the next day. They are flustered day after day just to break a few taels of silver. However, the silver coins break the shoulders of the world.

很喜歡這麼一段話：生活各自不易，個人所求不同，各自立場不同，勿在別人心中修行自己，勿在自己心中強求別人。

I like such a saying: life is not easy, personal requirements are different, their positions are different, don't practice yourself in others' hearts, do not force others in your own heart.

總有一天你會明白，能治癒你的從來不是時間，而是心裡的那股釋懷和明白，愛自己，強於很多人愛你。不要從別人身上找安全感，能給你安全感的只有自己。

One day you will understand that it is not time that can cure you, but the relief and understanding in your heart. Love yourself is better than many people love you. Don't look for security from others. Only you can feel safe is yourself.

《巴菲特對女兒的忠告》中寫道：

"Warren Buffett's advice to his daughter" wrote:

“如果將來我有女兒，不會從小給她灌輸要溫柔，要善良，要懂事，要樂於助人這類思想。這些看似美好的詞，變成束縛要求在一個人身上，在我看來和道德綁架沒什麼兩樣。

"If I had a daughter in the future, I would not have taught her to be gentle, kind, sensible and helpful. These seemingly beautiful words are bound to a person. In my opinion, they are no different from moral kidnapping.

我會教她權衡利弊，做事之前想好得與失，先愛自己，再愛別人，我要把她養成一個既世俗又浪漫的精明女人。”

I will teach her to weigh the pros and cons, think about gains and losses before doing things, love yourself first, and then love others. I will cultivate her into a shrewd woman who is both secular and romantic

請接受你現在的樣子，同時也完善你現在的樣子，不要成為別人嘴裡的那個人。

Please accept the way you are now, and at the same time improve your present situation. Don't be the person in other people's mouth.

只願你在摩肩接踵的人群裡，不會因為平凡而感到心慌，心裡有底氣，因為這個世界上不會有第二個你。

Only wish you in the crowd, not because of ordinary and feel flustered, the heart has the confidence, because this world will not have a second you.