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26 DEC.SATURDAY一定要有所得，有所失，才談得上勇氣。

常言道：“天之道，有所得必有所失”。所有得到都伴隨著失去，當你羨慕別人得到了什麼時，並不知道他們失去了什麼。

As the saying goes, "the way to gain is to lose.". All gains are accompanied by losses. When you admire what others have gained, you don't know what they have lost.

當你去羨慕別人已擁有，而你未曾得到的東西時，或許忽略了你得到了別人不曾有，也同樣求之不得的東西。

When you envy what others have but you haven't got, you may neglect that you have got what others haven't had and you just can't get.

多點看看身邊的事和物，你會發現，其實你擁有的東西並不少，只是你沒有去觀察，去發現，去珍重。

If you look at the things around you, you will find that you have a lot of things, but you don't observe, discover and treasure them.

人活於世，無非就是一失一得的重複。

Living in the world is nothing more than the repetition of one loss and one gain.

失得既是一種生活的哲學，又是一種為人處世的藝術；既是一種精神，又是一種領悟；既是一種智慧，又是一種人生的境界。

Losing is not only a philosophy of life, but also an art of dealing with people's life; it is not only a spirit, but also a comprehension; it is not only a wisdom, but also a realm of life.

所以人們在得到一些東西的時候，也必然會失去一些東西。

So when people get something, they are bound to lose something.

社會是一個大環境，我們要去習慣它，融入它。失敗不可怕，可怕的是不敢去面對，別人可以教會你成功的經驗，但給不了你失敗的教訓。

Society is a big environment. We should get used to it and integrate into it. Failure is not terrible, terrible is not dare to face, others can teach you the experience of success, but can not give you the lesson of failure.