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27 DEC.SUNDAY時間不是解藥，但解藥在時間裡。

聽過這樣一句話，“世上有三種事，你自己的事，別人的事，老天爺的事”。無論受什麼因素的影響，你能控制的改變的，只有自己的事，凡事自己努力追求過的，不管失敗成功，都應該欣然接受，心平氣和的面對。

 I've heard the saying, "there are three things in the world, your own, others' and God's". No matter what factors, you can control the change, only their own things, everything they have tried to pursue, regardless of failure or success, should be willing to accept, calm face.

這對於工作、學習而言，似乎並不是什麼難事，可用之於感情之上，卻發現往往情感上的求而不得是最讓人難以平復的。

It seems that this is not difficult for work and study. It can be applied to feelings, but it is often found that emotional demands are the most difficult to calm.

“刻舟求劍”是小學時學的一則寓言，小時候讀此文，覺得此人好糊塗，難道不知道劍在江中央掉下了水，跑到江邊是找不到的？

"Carving a boat for a sword" is a fable learned in primary school. When I was a child, I felt that this man was so confused. Didn't I know that the sword fell into the water in the middle of the river and could not be found when I ran to the side of the river?

然而長大後發現，在這條歲月的長河裡，很多人在某個節點遺失的東西，之後一次又一次返回尋找，卻不知道自己只是站在船邊徘徊，江中央已經回不去了。

However, when I grew up, I found that in the long river of years, many people lost things at a certain node, and then returned to look for them again and again, but I didn't know that I was just standing by the boat, and I couldn't go back to the middle of the river.

隨著年齡的增長，才慢慢懂得，人與人之間最合適的距離就是適可而止。走得越近，感覺會越遠，無論你有多愛那個人，也不可以太親近， 在天長地久之前，我們要首先要學會的是如何分開。

As we grow older, we gradually understand that the most appropriate distance between people is enough. The closer you go, the farther you feel. No matter how much you love that person, you can't be too close to him. Before forever, we should first learn how to separate.

畢竟，面對這些求而不得，“時間不是解藥，但解藥藏在時間裡”。

After all, in the face of these demands, "time is not the antidote, but the antidote is hidden in time.".