庚子年 己丑月 庚午日

22 JAN.FRIDAY在這個世界上，所有真性情的人，想法總是與眾不同。

性格決定選擇，選擇決定命運，也許是我們顧忌太多，所以我們不敢說實話，說真話，也許是因為我們忌憚信任的淺薄，友情的可笑，擔心自己的幼稚與呆傻，從而失去了可貴的孩子般的簡單真實。

Character decides the choice, choice decides the fate, maybe we have too many scruples, so we dare not tell the truth, to tell the truth, maybe because we are afraid of the shallow trust, the ridiculous friendship, worried about our childishness and stupidity, thus losing the valuable simple truth like a child.

我們的話語中多多少少夾雜著世俗的評判和猜忌，人與人之間普遍缺乏信任感和安全感，因此保持距離，保持矜持。也失去了一份難得的真性情。

Our words are more or less mixed with secular judgments and suspicions. There is a general lack of trust and security between people, so we should keep a distance and reserve. Also lost a rare true feelings.

所以做個簡單的、率真的人是非常難的。

So it's very difficult to be a simple and frank person.

季羨林說：“交了一輩子朋友， 究竟喜歡什麼樣的人呢？ 約略是這樣的： 質樸、平易；硬骨頭，心腸軟； 懷真情、講真話； 不阿諛奉承，不背後議論； 不人前一面人後一面； 無譁眾取寵之意， 有實事求是之心； 考慮個人利益也為別人考慮； 關鍵是個真字，是性情中人。“

Ji Xianlin said: "after making friends all my life, what kind of people do you like? The general idea is as follows: plain and plain; hard hearted and soft hearted; sincere and sincere; no flattery and no back talk; no front face and back face; no grandstanding and flattery; practical and realistic; considering personal interests and other people's interests; the key is to be a true character and a man of temperament. “

世界之大，人類之渺小，生命之短暫，你我皆凡人，願餘生你我能不做作，不虛假，不勉強，不委屈，努力做個真性情的自己！

The world is big, the human is small, the life is short, you and I are all mortals, I wish the rest of your life you and I can not affectation, not false, not forced, not wronged, and strive to be a true nature of their own!