庚子年 己丑月 己卯日

31 JAN.SUNDAY你寬恕的能力，愛的能力，拒絕的能力，決定你未來生活的品質。

非常喜歡喜樣一句話，“你寬恕的能力，愛的能力，拒絕的能力，決定你未來生活的品質”。

I like the saying "your ability to forgive, your ability to love and your ability to refuse determine the quality of your future life.".

因為人性有“貪”，有妄念，所以你要學習和鍛鍊自己拒絕的能力。因為人性有“嗔”，有抱怨，所以你要學習和鍛鍊自己寬恕的能力。因為人性有”痴”，有執著，所以你要學習和鍛鍊自己愛與分享的能力。

Because human nature has "greed" and delusion, you should learn and exercise your ability to refuse. Because human nature has anger and complaint, you should learn and practice your ability to forgive. Because human nature has "infatuation" and perseverance, you should learn and exercise your ability to love and share.

中國人在做人的問題上有太多的思考，太多的勵志，太多的感悟，太多的譴責，太多的追問，太多的惶恐……

Chinese people have too much thinking, too much inspiration, too much feeling, too much condemnation, too much questioning, too much fear on the issue of being a human being

我們經常說，銳氣藏於胸，和氣浮於面，才氣行於事，義氣施於人。

We often say that the spirit is stored in the chest, the spirit is floating in the face, the talent is carried out in things, and the righteousness is given to people.

銳氣是獨立的精神，絕塵的，不妥協的東西，不可沒有，但要“藏”，因為外是“世俗”，不容你的孤傲。

Spirit is the spirit of independence. It's necessary to have something that is absolute and uncompromising, but it should be "hidden", because it's "secular" outside, and you can't be alone and proud.

和氣是勘破一切世俗後的寬容，計較只會傷人傷己；才氣是本事，是領悟力，量力而行事，恰好最好。義氣是靈肉有餘則廣為佈施，且不求回報。

Harmony is the tolerance after breaking through all worldly affairs, and care will only hurt others and oneself; talent is the ability, the power of understanding, and doing things according to one's ability is just the best. Righteousness is flesh and soul. If you have more than enough, you will give it to others without asking for any reward.

所以，做人，低調得有低調的境界，張揚得有張揚的本事，而始終如一的不卑不亢則是境界和本事，給了人生一份了不起的鎮靜和從容。

Therefore, to be a low-key person, one has to have a low-key realm, and to make public one's ability, while to be consistently modest and unassuming is the realm and ability, which gives life a great calmness and calmness.