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人生總免不了碰到“不地道”的人與事,生悶氣、發牢騷都會有的,但又能怎麼樣呢?如果那些“不地道”的人還得到了比你更多的好處或關愛,你內心往往就更不平衡了,就開始計較:“他們憑什麼”……但失敗者就是輸在計較,而成功者則贏在格局。其實,這個世界並不是掌握在那些不地道的人手中,恰恰相反,世界是掌握在那些能經受得住嘲笑與批評、並依舊堅持按照規律做事和往前走的人手中。

每個人的機遇是不同的,命運更是不同。我們越是比較,就越計較,也越讓自己的命運脫離掌控。不計較,不是放棄計較,而是要把“計較”放在自己身上——去計量一下今天的自己是不是比昨天更進了一步?是不是更努力地把每件事做好,而且做得光明磊落。其實,人生是否順利,不取決於別人是否欣賞你,而是取決於自己能否做到!成功的人生不是知道規律,而是在“人法地,地法天,天法道,道法自然”的實踐中持續做到。

我們是自己命運的創造者,是自己行為的主人和執行者,同時也是自己行為的受難者。人是習慣的奴隸,我們養出了習慣,隨後習慣又養出了我們。播下什麼種子,收穫什麼命運。知道沒有力量,行動才有力量。事業是幹出來的,幸福人生是用雙手打拼出來的,沒有行動,一切都是空!如果人到中年還一事無成,就該反思一下:是不是自己光知道而沒行動?或是行動太少、堅持不夠?雖說認知為先,但必須輔以行動,而且最終還是行動為上——因為,行動才會產生力量,行動才能方得始終!

一個人怎樣才能創造生命奇蹟?其實很簡單,就是“做——做事——認真做——努力做——重複做——用心做——堅持做”,奇蹟自然會發生!就像煮飯,不斷添柴加火,才能將生米煮成熟飯,生命奇蹟就是這樣產生的!一個人的成功與失敗不在於智商、情商、出身、地位,而是在於他與人為善的思維方式,更在於他如實遵道而行的持續做到。

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Life will inevitably encounter "unauthentic" people and things, then sulking and grumbling appeared, but what else can we do? If those "unauthentic" people get more benefits or care than us, our hearts will get more unbalanced, and start to ask: "why they"...But the loser is to lose in the fuss, and the winner is to win in the pattern. In fact, the world is not in the hands of those who are not authentic, the world is in the hands of those who can withstand ridicule and criticism, and still stick to the rules and move forward.

Each person's opportunity is different, and the destiny is more different. The more we compare, the more we calculate, and the more we let our destiny slip out of our control. Don't calculate, not mean to give up calculating, but to "calculate" on our own body - To measure if today's “me” is better than yesterday’s? If we try harder to do everything well and do it aboveboard. In fact, the success of life, not depends on whether others appreciate us, but depends on whether we can do it! A successful life is not only knowing the rules, but in the practice of "Human being follow the Earth, Earth follows Heaven, Heaven follows the Tao, the Tao follows the way things are".

We are the makers of our own destinies, the masters and executors of our own actions, and the victims of our own actions. Man is the slave of habit. We breed our habits, and then our habits breed us. Sow what seed, reap what fate. There is no power of knowing but doing. .Business is out of doing, happy life is out of working with both hands, without action, everything is empty! If people have achieved nothing in middle age, it is time to reflect on: is it that they just know but did not take action? Or they did too little action but not enough persistence. Although cognition comes first, but it must be accompanied by action, and ultimately action is more important -- because action will produce power, action can always be last.

How can we create a miracle in life? In fact, it is very simple, that is, "do – do things –do things earnestly – do things seriously -- do things repeatedly -- do things with heart-- do things insistently", then miracles will happen! Just like cooking, keep adding wood and fire, in order to cook the raw rice, the miracle of life is produced in this way! The success or failure of a person does not depend on his intelligence quotient, emotional quotient, family background or status, but on his way of thinking which is kind to others, and more importantly, on his consistent doing which is following the Tao.

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