也許,我們該給朋友分個類!
朋友是什麼?朋友是一種真誠的互動,是一種心有靈犀的一種感應。山河不足重,重在遇知己。有的時候,朋友在給我心靈的慰藉的同時,也給我前進的動力,因為自己知道,有那麼一群可愛的 朋友陪自己一起進步,自己從來都不孤孤獨。
大學初成長
初入大學,漸漸的發現自己彷彿喪失了交友的能力,與周邊的生活格格不入,在孤獨與迷茫中獨自前行!在這個過程中,也認識了一些朋友,但發現最後都漸行漸遠,慢慢地不再有交際,而和以前的朋友聯絡的更加頻繁,關係也比以前更加親密了。也會懷疑自己,自己是怎麼了,是不是自己的問題,慢慢地,獨自享受孤獨,也在慢慢思考,也許是因為,我不會給朋友分個類。
成長感悟
每一個朋友都是獨立的個體,這讓每一位朋友的思想和價值觀都有許不同,這使我們必須明白,每一個朋友都應該給他貼上標籤,這個標籤,可以讓我們更好地交流和交際!有的朋友,是用來談心的,你可以聊理想和人生目標,也可以請他指點人生困惑;有的朋友,是用來分享生活的,你可以和他分享生活中的小確幸和倒黴事,也可以用來分享心情;有的朋友,是用來共享興趣愛好的,可以一起進行野營、畫畫、看劇等活動,也可以分享愛豆的海報周邊……
在這裡,也許會有人說這是不是太現實了,其實這很好理解,我們對不同朋友的應該有不同的標準。舉個例子:你會和一個整天想著怎麼吃吃喝喝的朋友聊人生理想嗎?我想:毋庸置疑,不會。其實在生活中,我們漸漸都會發現,當我們處於不同的處境時,能聯絡的朋友是不一樣的。這也讓是讓我們更好地和他人相處,因為這樣以後,我們不必強求朋友一定要對於自己的困境給出相應的建議,我們也不必強求朋友一定要和自己去接觸興趣愛好……當然,如果你的朋友這些都能滿足你,那麼,幸運的孩子們,好好珍惜你們的寶藏朋友吧!
共同成長
我的朋友是一群可愛的人,能配我瘋瘋癲癲,也能陪我人生哲學,這是我能在我人生道路上勇往直前的力量之一,願全天下的可愛的人們能擁有一群可愛的朋友!人生的一些階段,我們會明白一些道理,但是所幸的是:生活依舊美好!
也許,人生的旅途就是這樣,用大把的時間迷茫,在幾個瞬間成長!
英語翻譯
What is a friend? A friend is a kind of sincere interaction, a kind of inspiration. The mountains and rivers are not important, the most important thing is to meet friends. Sometimes, my friends not only give me the comfort of my soul, but also the motivation to move forward, because I know that with such a lovely group of friends, I am never alone.
01
When I first entered the university, I gradually found that I had lost the ability to make friends, was out of step with the surrounding life, and walked alone in loneliness and confusion! In the process, I also got to know some friends, but found that they all drifted away in the end, and slowly no longer have communication, and I contacted my former friends more frequently, and the relationship became closer than before. I also doubt myself, what's wrong with me, is it my own problem, slowly, enjoying loneliness alone, and thinking slowly, maybe because I don't classify my friends
02
Every friend is an independent individual, which makes every friend’s thoughts and values slightly different. This makes us understand that every friend should label him. This label can make us better Communication and communication! Some friends are used to talk about heart, you can talk about ideals and goals in life, or ask him to point out the confusion in life; some friends are used to share life, you can share with him the little luck and bad luck in life Things can also be used to share feelings; some friends are used to share hobbies, camping, painting, watching dramas and other activities together, or sharing idol posters...
Here, some people may say whether this is too realistic. In fact, this is easy to understand. We should have different standards for different friends. For example: Would you talk about your ideals in life with a friend who thinks about how to eat and drink all day? I think: No doubt, no. In fact, in life, we will gradually find that when we are in different situations, the friends we can contact are different. This also allows us to get along with others better, because in the future, we don’t have to force our friends to give advice on our own difficulties, and we don’t have to force our friends to contact ourselves with hobbies...Of course, If all of your friends can satisfy you, then, lucky children, cherish your treasure friends!
03
My friends are a group of lovely people who can accompany me crazy and my philosophy of life. This is one of the strengths that I can move forward courageously on the road of my life. I hope all the lovely people in the world can have a group of lovely friends! At some stages of life, we will understand some truths, but fortunately: life is still beautiful! Perhaps, the journey of life is like this, spending a lot of time getting lost and growing in a few moments!
參考資料:知乎、百度,谷歌
文案:鯨魚
排版:鯨魚
稽核:程曉燕