這本書特別適合在一段關係前，或者在感情中迷失自我的小夥伴閱讀。感知自己，認識自己，當你內心深處夠豐富，快樂，知足，你就不會容易因為對方的失聯或者小爭執患得患失，個人覺得了解自己，愛自己的前提再去進入一段關係，這樣感情就會更加自如，穩定，因為愛人首先先要愛己。

This books is an eye –opening for me. I have learned a lot from it.Relationship not only has to be based on love, respect, and honesty; it has to be interdependent—where two strong people love each other but never to the point of sacrificing their own happiness or values. To me, marriage, or any relationship, comes down to two people walking side by side through life, learning alone and together, and sharing what they’ve learned with each other as they keep growing and expanding.

And two people in love can attain both Interdependence and balance. With that balance, you each become a pillar strong enough to sustain love while living side by side. One partner doesn’t need to lean on, or crash into, or merge with the other. A strong pillar stands straight on its own. It’s perfect just by being itself, and from that place it chooses to share and to stand with another.

個人覺得最好的愛情是互相滋養、陪伴，共同成長，勢均力敵，當兩個人在一起的時候可以很舒服的狀態放飛自我，我懂你的自由，你懂我的瘋，我陪你一起欣賞夕陽西下，你帶我到世界各個角落吃各種好吃的。。。。。。哈哈哈