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網上有一個問答：“喜歡一個不喜歡你的人，是什麼感受？”

There is a question and answer on the Internet: "what's it like to like someone who doesn't like you?"

有一個網友回答說：“我感覺我像一個舔狗，舔到最後可能還是一無所有，太難了，很想放棄，但是捨不得。”

A netizen replied: "I feel like a licking dog, licking to the end may still have nothing, too difficult, want to give up, but reluctant."

還有一個網友說：“千萬不要去喜歡一個不喜歡你的人，簡直卑微至極，卻又無可奈何。”

Another netizen said: "don't like a person who doesn't like you. It's very humble but helpless."

對大部分人來說，喜歡一個人，就想著去討好一個人，做他喜歡做的事，說他愛聽的話。

For most people, like a person, want to please a person, do what he likes to do, say what he likes to hear.

到最後才發現，我們放棄了原來喜歡的自己，認為堅持下去就可以感動他，是多麼的可笑。

Until the end, we found that we gave up the original like themselves, think that adhere to can move him, is how ridiculous.

大概也許，我們都會遇到一個不喜歡自己的人，放棄時捨不得，堅持又太累，愛而不得，煎熬著，想著也許對方會看到，會來迎接我們。

Maybe, we all meet a person who doesn't like us, who is reluctant to give up, who is too tired to persist, who is unable to love, who is suffering, thinking that maybe the other party will see us and come to meet us.

但是我們忘記了，無論遇到多麼心動的人，如果走不到對方心裡，我們所做的各種努力，僅僅是感動了自己，留下的也是滿身傷痕的自己。

But we forget that no matter how exciting people we meet, if we can't get to each other's heart, all kinds of efforts we make only move ourselves and leave us with scars.

唯有愛情，不是你努力，就能擁有的！

Only love, not you work hard, can have!